I used to buy things as soon as I fell in love with them, a quick hit of joy, a little indulgence. But now? I pause. Because I’ve learned that one small shift turns my spending into strategy.
Here’s what I do instead:
- 🛍️ I window shop. I try it on, touch the fabric, imagine it in my life.
- 🚶🏽♀️ Then I walk away. Literally. No checkout, no regret.
- 💻 At home, I buy it online. But only through a cashback portal or points site.
This simple switch means I double dip on rewards:
- 👉🏽 Cashback or points from the site
- 👉🏽 Credit card rewards from the purchase
⏳ If I have time, I’ll compare prices online or wait for a promo code. But even if I don’t? That same £100 spend becomes:
- 💸 £10 cashback
- ✈️ 1,000 reward points
- 🛫 A step closer to a free flight upgrade
That’s the soft life. That’s shopping smart — not impulsive, intentional.
So the next time you’re tempted to tap your card at the till, remember: the real luxury isn’t the item, it’s the freedom it can fund later, when you shop with strategy.
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